This homily for the first Sunday of Advent is based on Isaiah 63:16ff, 1 Cor 1:3-9, and Mark 13:33-37.
Today is the First Sunday of Advent, and so we light the first of four candles in our Advent wreath.
Already?! Today we begin our countdown to what should be the strangest Christmas of our lifetime… It is for this reason–amidst the global pandemic–that Advent becomes even more significant.
After all, the season of Advent has always been quite underrated. What do you expect from something that comes right before Christmas–and naturally pales in comparison to it? Yet the Church in her centuries’ worth of wisdom has thought it important that before we rush and celebrate the birth of our Lord, it’s worthwhile to spend some time–in fact, four weeks–just to prepare for Christmas.
The root word of “Advent” comes from the Latin “venire,” which means “to arrive.” Advent then is the time for us to prepare for the arrival of the Lord at Christmas. Our First Reading, from the Book of the Prophet Isaiah, describes this arrival in a dramatic way: “Oh, that you would rend the heavens and come down, with the mountains before you.”
This image of God tearing up the heavens in order to make His descent to the world really captures the significance of God becoming one of us: For God to come down from His heaven–that’s awesome enough. But for One as infinite, and as perfect as God to actually become a mere human being–which is exactly what we are preparing to celebrate at Christmas–is, in every sense of the word, a breakthrough. It was totally unheard of and completely inconceivable for the Jews. The Incarnation–God becoming human–is an extraordinary–and subversive–event. Our problem is, we tend to take it for granted because we’ve grown too accustomed to it. After all, we celebrate Christmas every year and sing of its story through every possible carol that we’ve learned by heart since our childhood. We have grown too accustomed to the image of the Baby Jesus surrounded by his parents, shepherds, kings, and animals.
Advent is the time to call to mind something we usually forget: how utterly innovative God’s plan of salvation is and how absolutely extraordinary our God is.
But Advent is also exactly the time to recall that the event of Incarnation is as quiet as it was dramatic and incredible. And our God is extraordinary precisely because out of His extraordinary love for us, He has, despite being God, freely decided to be ordinary.
Advent is the time for us to prepare ourselves to meet the extraordinary and ordinary God of Christmas. How do we do this? Our Lord gives us a short–but not so simple–advice in today’s Gospel: “Be watchful! Be alert! For you do not know when the Lord of the house is coming.”
in other words, the way to prepare to meet the Lord is active waiting. Now, let’s not get him wrong like many people, who think that waiting actively means getting all anxious and obsessed with what’s going to happen in the future. You know what I mean. You may have done it before–or maybe you do it all the time. When you expect something to happen and you’re not sure how it will turn out, you engage in speculation and play the worst possible scenarios in your head. In other words, you catastrophize. Meanwhile, you get all stressed, waste your emotional energy, and just as importantly, allow your obsession with what hasn’t happened yet to keep you away from living the present moment–when in fact, active waiting means doing something good, and the only possible place where we can do something good that’s real is the present moment.
Just last week, a friend of mine shared with me a quotation that she says has been very helpful to her. For me, it captures what active waiting is all about. It reminds us of the value of the present moment, for it is only there that we can meet God. Maybe reading it will help you begin your Advent. Here goes…
There are two days in every week
about which we should not worry,
Two days which should be kept free of fear and apprehension.
One of these days is Yesterday,
With its mistakes and cares,
Its faults and blunders,
Its aches and pains.
Yesterday has passed forever beyond our control.
All the money in the world cannot bring back yesterday.
We cannot undo a single act we performed;
We cannot erase a single word we said.
Yesterday is gone.
The other day we should not worry about is Tomorrow
With its possible adversities, its burdens, its larger promise.
Tomorrow is also beyond our immediate control.
Tomorrow the sun will rise,
Either in splendor or behind a mask of clouds,
But it will rise.
Until it does, we have no stake in tomorrow
For it is as yet unborn.
This leaves only one day – Today.
Any man can fight the battles of just one day.
It is only when you and I add the burdens of those two awful eternities
–Yesterday and Tomorrow–
That we break down.
It is not the experience of today that drives people mad.
It is remorse or bitterness for something which happened yesterday
And the dread of what tomorrow may bring.
Let us, therefore, live but one day at a time.
To wait actively for the Lord, we need to embrace the only real time available to us–the present moment. Only there will the extraordinary–and ordinary–God of Christmas meet us.
So this Advent, can you learn to skip those two days of the week?
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3 replies on “LET’S SKIP THESE TWO DAYS OF THE WEEK…”
I would like to repeat the last two sentences of your beautiful, thought provoking and meaningful homily. Let us go back to the basics & remember that the Spirit of HOPE, PEACE and LOVE are the most important this Advent Season & the Greatest of these is LOVE!. Only then can we bring color back into Christmas.
Thank you for reminding me to forget those two days of the week and what it means to actively wait for our Loving Lord!
This year Advent for us paints an entirely different picture… in the PAST it was a time of reunions, exchange of gifts we shopped at colourfully decorated crowded malls , it was 9-days of dawn Masses in relatively crowded Churches , it was big , special dishes cooked in abundance for our Christmas Noche Buena as groups carolled our homes …
What is 2020 Christmas at the time of this Pandemic❓All that color turned GREY … we see the number of infections & death growing everyday around the world, instead , Hospitals not Malls or Churches are filled with sick people, the laughter has turned to quiet tears, we cant even be privileged to see smiles behind the masks… The Challenge is : what do we make of this GREY picture? Do we let it absorb us or do we let our Creative minds stir the Spirit of Christmas WITHIN our Hearts ❤️That it overflows towards our brothers & sisters in Christ. Let us go back to Basics & remember that the Spirit of HOPE, PEACE & LOVE are the Most Important this Advent Season & the Greatest of these is LOVE❗️Only then can we bring Color back into Christmas ❤️